Both of us are getting married for
the second time. His family and friends are envious that he is married to a
younger woman and talk about his ex-girlfriends before me, trying to insinuate
a fight. My husband says that they are only chitchat, but it upsets me since I
love him.
ANSWER:
My dear, you’ve got
to handle the situation bravely. It is none of their business if you both have
decided to get married irrespective of the age gap. What matters is that there
is genuine love between you both. Do not give them room to fight. Ignore them
and what they do or say. Concentrate on your husband and what you both want for
yourself. Pretend not to be affected by what they say and when they notice that
you seem no perturbed and moved by their statements, they will quit it. If you
have a sympathetic and understanding woman outside the family, it might help to
confide in her. Endeavor not to engage into quarrel or argument with your husband
as a result of what they say. They will be happy to see that. What more do they
want if not to get you both separated!
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